Is there a bias against men in divorce?
Divorce is our focus topic this month at MKB Law and much of our focus has unintentionally been on women and children and how they are affected by the divorce process. But what about the men?
Statistics show that divorce is initiated more by women then men but why is this?
- Is it that men are at fault more than women?
- Are men less likely to do something about it if they are in an unhappy relationship?
In this blog we will look to address these questions and also offer some guidance to men going through divorce.
Grounds for divorce
Many people assume that of the 5 ground for divorce men would be most guilty of adultery but this is not the case. Recent statistics show that unreasonable behavior, which includes alcohol abuse, physical abuse and verbal abuse, is the most cited reason for divorce cases against men.
In our blog on the valid grounds for divorce in Northern Ireland we mentioned that unreasonable behavior is often cited in instances where couples would prefer to agree to a ‘no fault’ divorce but have not been separated for a long enough period. This may skew the statistics slightly but not enough to say that the statistics are inaccurate. To read our full blog on the grounds for divorce in Northern Ireland follow the link below:
Does divorce favor women?
Statistically divorce does favor women but this is not to say that there is a bias against men. The facts merely show that women are more successful in divorce claims, not that they are awarded unfairly. These judgments are in the vast majority of cases awarded for good reason and not just as a default response.
Men are generally higher earners and as such have more to lose as a result but the prospect of being a single parent with very little money is a huge risk taken by many divorcing mothers.
Child Custody and Child Contact
In terms of child custody the statistics are again in favor of women with recent statistics showing that over 80% of children of separated parents live with their mother.
Advice for Men
I think it is unfair to say that there is a bias against men in divorce but men are often forgotten in the process and are usually the losers in these cases (This is not to say that a women who has been through a difficult or even abusive relationship could ever be considered a winner). A husband can find themselves facing life without their wife, house or kids in an instant and this can be difficult to comprehend.
Our divorce and separation solicitors say that planning for the future is one of the most important factors to consider for those going through a divorce.
Where will you live? How will the finances be divided? It is best to consider all potential scenarios so nothing comes as a shock.
To speak to a divorce solicitor at MKB Law contact us on 028 9024 2450.